Craft Your Love Story by Lyssa deHart

Craft Your Love Story

Are You Ready?

I would like to personally...

...invite you to join Craft Your Love Story.

Are you ready to learn key elements of how to craft a love story that take into account who you are, what you need in your life, and how to sift through the signals that you are getting?


I have increased confidence - both in myself and in the potential for a better relationship than I had in my marriage. I feel I have more insight into the dating process with an understanding that I can look for the things that are important to me and not need to make compromises. I've become more aware of my ability to "flirt" - carry on conversation, engage people and have fun. In the past I doubted my ability to do this - but I'm starting to realize it was an external narrative that was inflicted on me. I also have a vision of what my future can be. A future that includes things that are important to me. A future that isn't full of compromises. A future in a healthy, fulfilling relationship. But - I also realize that there is no timeline to reach this destination and that I need to enjoy the journey.
Brad L.
I gained a lot of important reminders that I’d forgotten or don’t revisit anywhere near as much as I could. For example, reminders about the importance of being “curious” or “radical curiosity”. This expanded to areas like values & characteristics I’d like during a date (vs. simply ticking off my checklist of requirements), “flirting with curiosity”, even my own hang-ups or areas I’m afraid or persistent patterns, and certainly everything else related to the whole dating process. So, overall, the reminder that, while it’s great that I’m self-aware, it can be important to paint it with something like “curiosity”.
Nathan T.

Are You Ready to Craft a Love Story?

11 Things that Might be Getting In Your Way

Do any of these sound familiar?
  1. You have a "Deal Breaker" list and you zealously control/alt/delete anyone who doesn't fill every checkbox.
  2. There is a pattern to your partners and you end up disappointed.
  3. Chemistry is your main indicator and your primary compass.
  4. Quick to jump into love and slow to jump out when it's not working.
  5. You've been hanging out waiting for someone to find you and fall in love with all your wonderfulness.
  6. Flirting and still asking questions that tell you something important, isn't easy.
  7. The picture you have in your head never seems to match reality.
  8. There is a level of energy that is hard to expand when you don't feel like anything is working.
  9. You don't feel like there are many good options, so you've given up a little.
  10. When you consider what constitutes a good partner it's murky, so you dating anyone with a heartbeat.
  11. For all you're talking about wanting a relationship, you've left no room in your life to go out and find one.


What is Craft Your Love Story and who is it for?

Craft Your Love Story is an exclusive, 10 Module Program that is a self-paced growth journey to crafting the love you wish to have in your life. If you find yourself struggling, repeating the same mistakes, or not happy with where you are right now in your love life, this program was created for you. It is a comprehensive program that will guide you through the steps of clarifying who you are, what you want, and how to be smart about getting it!

If you still have a few more questions...

Scroll down to the bottom of the page. We added additional FAQs down there.

Craft Your Love Story: A Dating Game Plan

Are you ready to discover what it takes to have a healthy relationship?
Would you like to save time and not date a million people?
Do you want to find love? Then read on...

This is a Self-Paced Dating Program
  • Go at your own speed. 
  • You will get the full Craft Your Love Story Workbook, Video Training, Plus, a weekly call to ask questions and explore what your learning.
  • Led by:Lyssa deHart, LICSW, Happy Wife + Relationship Expert + Master Certified Coach

What's included?

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Welcome to Craft Your Love Story!
Welcome to Craft Your Love Story Video
CYLS Welcome Page.pdf
3.41 MB
CYLS Module 1: Agreement Setting; Head, Heart, Gut; Your Vision Statement
Module 1 Video
CYLS Module 1 Final EPDF.pdf
2.74 MB
Head, heart, and gut instincts backed by science | Lyn Christian | TEDxSaltLakeCity
CYLS Module 2: Discovering Your Essence and Personal Values
CYLS Module 2 Final EPDF.pdf
9.98 MB
Module 2 Video
Amazing Resonance Experiment!
CYLS Module 3: Jerks and Tuning your BS Detector
CYLS Module 3 Final EPDF.pdf
5.05 MB
Module 3 Video
Thought Experiment: Who The Hell is Hamish?
CYLS Module 4: Let's Talk About Sex; Know, Trust, Commit; Chemistry & Common Sense
CYLS Module 4 Final EPDF.pdf
8.04 MB
Module 4 Video
CYLS Module 5: Family Dynamics; "The One"; Patterns & Potential; Timing
CYLS Module 5 Final EPDF.pdf
9.96 MB
Module 5 Video
CYLS Module 6: A deep dive into Relationship Values
CYLS Module 6 Final EPDF.pdf
4.29 MB
Module 6 Video
CYLS Module 7: Binding Versus Bonding Factors
CYLS Module 7 Final EPDF.pdf
3.6 MB
Module 7 Video
CYLS Module 8: Do I Like You?; and Your Life as a Pie
CYLS Module 8 Final EPDF.pdf
4.71 MB
Module 8 Video
CYLS Module 9: Flirting with Purpose; Inner Wisdom Visualization
CYLS Module 9 Final EPDF.pdf
7.78 MB
Module 9 Video
CYLS Module 10: Bringing it all together!
CYLS Module 10 Final EPDF.pdf
9.04 MB
Module 10 Video
CYLS Module 10 - preview

Additional FAQ's

Is there a suggested time frame to complete?

My recommendation is one video module per week; this allows you time to thoroughly digest and ruminate over the content covered.  However, it is up to you and what feels right, go through the program at the pace that feel is right for you.  Your content never goes away, and you can access it anytime.

Do the modules have to be done in order?

No, you can participate in any order you would like. If you find one topic pulling at you or that you have noticed may be a repeating pattern, by all means, take it first. 

 Is there any additional content?

Yes, how did you know to ask? ;o) You will receive a workbook that can be completed online and/or printed out. You will be invited to weekly calls where your questions will be discussed. These calls will also be recorded so if you can review them at any time. You will also receive an invitation to join a group of your peers who are going through the program with you or have already completed the program.

What happens if I get stuck or need further assistance understanding a concept?

You will have the opportunity to ask questions during our weekly calls.  Also, you are welcome to email me directly, and if you wish to take a deep dive into a subject, you may want to work one on one with me through personal coaching. I am here to support you.

Have we missed something that really needs to be here?  

I love hearing from you and am always working to improve my offerings. If we have missed something on this FAQ, please email me and let me know. This is also true for the program, if you have any recommendations or feedback, let me know.  Thank you so much and I am honored to be on this growth journey with you.